I keep talking to young women who idolize all of these celeberties and want to look just like them, but they are only harming themselves by the restrictions they are putting on themselves and it is consuming their life.

How else can you explain to girls from the ages of 13-17 that these people are in entertainment, that this is their job?

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How Do You Help Young Women Who Idolize Celebrities? [Forum]